is it ever ok for a guy to treat a girl like his gf but not make her his gf at all? is it ever ok? in this case, he would be free to have other targets still... and they have no commitment to each other.. wat if the girl feels so secure she doesn't have ani backup until one day the guy leaves her for another girl he has realli fallen for while she was hanging on his string? will they ever be frens again? hmm... does that mean frens should nv ever fool ard with each other? cos if one of them loses grip with reality and sinks into the fantasy, won't there be hurt? and sorrow? and risk losing a fren in the process?

some food for thought..